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End-of-Life Planning

Not My Favorite Subject Either, But…

The no-pressure guide to getting your affairs in order — for you, and for the people you love.

By Alice Truman · TA4U Publications · 2025

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What This Book Is About

You don't have to love this topic.
You just have to get it done.

Nobody wants to think about end-of-life planning. It feels heavy. It feels morbid. It feels like something you'll deal with later. But the longer you wait, the harder it gets — and the harder it gets for the people you love.

Not My Favorite Subject Either, But… meets you exactly where you are. No judgment. No pressure. Just clear, compassionate guidance through every step — so you can check this off your list and stop carrying it around in the back of your mind.

Alice Truman has spent years helping people face the things they'd rather not face. She writes like a trusted friend who's been through it — someone who can take something overwhelming and make it feel genuinely manageable.

Note: This book provides general guidance and education on end-of-life planning topics. It is not a substitute for legal, financial, or medical advice. Please consult appropriate professionals for decisions specific to your situation.

"This isn't about death. It's about love — making sure the people who matter most to you know what you want, and aren't left guessing."

This book is for you if:

  • → You've been putting off getting your affairs in order
  • → You're not sure what "getting your affairs in order" even means
  • → You want to spare your family the burden of figuring it out without you
  • → Someone in your life needs to do this and you don't know how to bring it up

What You'll Find Inside

Everything you need to know — in plain English, without the overwhelm.

  • What end-of-life planning actually covers — and a simple checklist to show you exactly where to start
  • Wills explained: what they do, what happens if you don't have one, and how to get one done
  • Healthcare directives and advance directives — making sure your medical wishes are known
  • Power of attorney: what it is, why you need it, and how to set it up properly
  • How to organize your financial accounts, insurance policies, and important documents — so your family can find everything
  • How to talk about this with your family — a guide to having the conversations most people avoid
  • Digital assets: passwords, accounts, and what happens to your online life
  • Funeral preferences — how to record what you want so your family doesn't have to guess
  • A practical action plan: what to tackle first, second, and third — so you can actually finish this
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Reader Reviews

From readers who finally checked this off their list

★★★★★
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"I've been saying 'I need to get my affairs in order' for years. This book finally made me actually do it. Alice doesn't make you feel guilty about waiting — she just gives you a clear path forward. I finished the most important steps in a weekend."

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Robert C.
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"I bought this for my elderly parents and ended up reading it myself. It's written so gently — it doesn't feel like a chore. The section on how to have these conversations with family was worth the price alone."

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Sandra M.
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"Clear, calm, practical. No scare tactics, no overwhelming legal jargon. Alice Truman somehow makes you want to do this — and more importantly, shows you exactly how. I've recommended it to everyone in my family."

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Diane K.
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About the Author

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Alice Truman

End-of-Life Planning · Grief · Family

Alice Truman writes about the hardest subjects in life with a steady, compassionate hand. Her books are for people who need real help — practical guidance that honors both the emotional weight of these topics and the real-world decisions we have to make.

Her goal has always been the same: take the things people avoid and make them approachable. Not by minimizing how hard they are, but by walking alongside you through them — one step at a time.

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Common Questions

Not to read it, no. The book is designed to help you understand what steps you need to take and why — so that when you do work with a lawyer, you're prepared and you're not paying to be educated. For documents like wills and powers of attorney, working with a licensed attorney is always recommended.
No — and that's one of the book's main points. End-of-life planning is for anyone who has people they love and things they own. Adults at any age benefit from having their affairs in order. The earlier you do this, the easier it is, and the greater peace of mind it gives you.
Currently available as a paperback. Check the Amazon listing for the most up-to-date availability — additional formats may be added.
When a Loved One Dies is for people dealing with a loss that has already happened — grief support and practical steps after a death. Not My Favorite Subject Either, But… is about planning ahead — getting your own affairs in order so that those you love are taken care of. They complement each other but address different moments in life.

A Free Resource from Alice Truman

The Essential End-of-Life Planning Checklist

A free, printable checklist of everything you need to get in order — documents, decisions, and conversations — organized by priority. Enter your email and I'll send it right to you.

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What to do first

A prioritized checklist so you know exactly where to start.

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Key documents covered

Will, healthcare directive, POA, insurance — all explained simply.

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The family conversation guide

How to bring this up with loved ones — without it feeling heavy.

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